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How does one succeed in life?

10.06.2025 02:57

How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Does the pro-choice movement realise that all the money used to subside abortions can be used to subsidize daycare and other financial support for single mothers with unplanned pregnancies?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Making more friends is a goal.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

That's it for today.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Who are the actual "science deniers": people who wait until vaccines are proven effective, or people who believe that there are more than two genders?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why do foolish atheists think their strange delusional theories are facts?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Was Daenerys' downfall inevitable after she left Meereen in Game of Thrones?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What I need from you?

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What is the best way to get over your ex?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Does not procrastinate.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself:

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?